Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Friday, March 8, 2013

Drop the Fallback Plan


What is your best advice for a budding entrepreneur?
 
That's the question I asked Jason Atkins, President and CEO of 360 Incentives. I was very interested in his response because Jason understands what it takes to succeed. In fact, his company recently secured a $7.65 million investment led by OMERS Ventures and it was named one of Deloitte's "Fast 50" companies to watch for 2013.

What was Jason's answer? He said, "Jump two feet in. You've got to go all in. Don't make a fallback plan." He explained when he started 360 Incentives he made the decision "to be successful or die trying."

Here is my interpretation of what he said: You must believe you'll succeed. Creating a fallback plan plants a seed in your mind that you don't really believe you'll be victorious. What you believe will become your future. If you believe you'll succeed, you'll find success. If you believe you'll fail, you'll find failure.

This doesn't mean you take foolish risks or that by believing you'll succeed you will not experience any challenges. You must have challenges in your life--and you will have them. That's how you grow, learn, and become better. It also keeps your life from being predictable and dull.

Going "all in" when it comes to following your dreams--whether your dream is to start a new business, get into the best shape of your life, or create abundance and happiness--means you believe what you're trying to achieve is possible and you trust in your ability to transform those dreams into reality.

Will you be afraid sometimes? Of course. It's part of being human. But, don't let the fear stop you. Don't let fear stop you from stepping up to the plate and taking action. Run into your fear. Run into your dreams. You really can succeed at living and creating your very best life.

What if you don't know exactly what it is you want? What if fear is keeping you stuck? Or, what if you do know what you want but are unsure of how to get from where you are now to exactly where you want to be?

Your Life, Your Design seminar on DVD, featuring Denise Marek, has the answers for you. During this power-packed presentation, Denise will take you on a step by step journey to designing--and living--your best and happiest life.

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Your Life, Your Design is the one program that will truly ignite the courage within you to move forward and change your life forever. In this 70-minute seminar on DVD, you'll:

#1. Learn how to get from where you are now to exactly where you want to be.
#2. Release anything that's getting in the way of what you want to do, be, or have.
#3. Uncover your true authentic self.
#4. Gain the courage to live the life of your heart's desires.
#5. Free yourself from unhealthy thinking and negative belief systems.
#6. Let go of the fears that keeps you stuck and struggling.
#7. Uncover what you truly want and move forward into a happier future.
#8. Discover 6 ways to banish doubt.
 
Introductory Price

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(Regular Price $59.95)

Mastercard and Visa are accepted
 
To Order:
 
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Thursday, January 3, 2013

Change Your Posture, Change Your Mind


"We know that our minds change our bodies; but, is it also true that our bodies change our minds?" 

The above question was posed by social psychologist, Amy Cuddy, in her talk, Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are. The answer is a resounding yes! Science proves that standing in a posture of confidence--even when you don't feel confident--can actually increase your chance for success.

The reason is that high-power posing changes the physiological make-up of your brain. It increases your testosterone and decreases cortisol (stress hormone) levels. These hormone changes lead to feeling more confident, powerful, optimistic, assertive, less stressed, and increases your willingness to take risks...all in only two minutes!

Cuddy tells about an interesting study in which participants were asked to spit into a vile to measure hormone levels and then pose for two minutes in either a low-power pose or a high-power pose.

A low-power pose is a posture in which you make yourself "smaller." Hunching, folding arms, crossing legs and ankles, slouching, or any other posture that makes you take up less space are some common low-power poses.

A high-power pose is a posture in which you make yourself "bigger." Stretching out, crossing arms behind the head, extending the arms, standing with hands on hips, standing in a victory pose with arms raised over the head (like the one I included in this article which was taken after a personal victory of running my first 6-mile marathon), or any posture that makes you take up more space are examples of high-power poses.


 
After posing for two minutes, participants were asked to spit into a vile again. Here are the incredible results:

Testosterone levels changed:
High-Power Posers = 20% increase
Low-Power Posers = 10% decrease

Cortisol (Stress Hormone) levels changed:
High-Power Posers = 20% decrease
Low-Power Posers = 15% increase

Given the opportunity to gamble:
High-Power Posers were 86% willing to gamble
Low-Power Posers were 60% willing to gamble

(The increased willingness to gamble indicates that risk tolerance increases in high-power posers.)

Your body does change your mind. Your posture tells your brain you're either powerful or stressed. How can you benefit from this insightful research? When you need to pump up your confidence, do some high-power poses in private.

Raise your arms up over your head in a victory stance, stand with your hands on your hips--just make yourself bigger. It can give you the confidence you need to ask for what you want, help you to succeed in high-pressure situations, and give you the confidence to be your authentic self--and all in only two minutes!

This is just one of many simple yet profound strategies that can really change your life in amazing ways. Join me at the Whitby Courthouse Theatre on January 16th at 7-8:30pm and discover more strategies for living your greatest, most powerful life.
 
It's not too late!!!
 
Your Life, Your Design
 
Your Life, Your Design is the one program that will truly ignite the courage within you to live your best life. In this 90-minute seminar, you'll:
 
#1. Learn how to get from where you are now to exactly where you want to be.
 
#2. Release anything that's getting in the way of what you want to do, be, or have.
 
#3. Uncover your true authentic self.
 
#4. Gain the courage to live the life of your heart's desires.
 
#5. Free yourself from non-physical trappings, such as unhealthy thinking and negative belief systems.
 
#6. Let go of the fears that keeps you stuck and struggling.
 
#7. Uncover what you truly want and move forward into a happier future.
 
#8. Discover your purpose and gain true fulfillment.
 
Where? When? How Much?
 
This step by step journey to designing--and living--your best life takes place on:
 
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
7pm - 8:30pm
 
 
Whitby Courthouse Theatre
416 Centre St. South
Whitby, ON
 
 
Introductory Price
 
$49/Person
 
Or make two easy payments of $24.50/month
 
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Mastercard and Visa are accepted
 
To Register:
 
Call 1-877-553-7397
 or
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